Also our perception towards various factors and situations is a result of many feelings mixed up together. When we judge someone or a situation, we have feelings like- hatred, love, curiosity, like, anger, pride and others that bring us to the judgement. The same way there cannot be a sole feeling towards something. If you think you love someone and have only love for them, have a look, there ought to be some minor things that you might dislike about the person. When you see only a single feeling for someone, it simply means that the other feelings are in negligibility. But they sure do exist.
Not every question can be answered in a yes or no, and when one is answered in this manner; there is a long going process of calculation of the combination of factors. When we need to come upon a decision based on various facts available, we start with looking at pros and cons of the situation. These pros and cons build our view towards the situation. And at the end we use this build up to come upon a conclusion. We see which feeling overpowers the other and as to what percentage of agreement is seen. Every point of conclusion you will ever arrive on will be because of this.
Let’s take that you go to eat something, there you evaluate your options and order what you like the most over other options. This is applicable in the smallest of smallest to a largest situation as well.
The same is when people say they dislike a certain person it’s because that there are majority things in the person that are not liked by them. There may be a good side to that person but the person judging him or her is unable to see. It can supposedly be agreed upon that we as humans utilize information available to us in a situation and it cannot be expected that we have complete and every single bit of information of any situation.
Well the presence of this blend is a very important factor in our lives. You cannot have sweet alone everyday forever or a green chili, but a proper blend of these two extreme flavors can create an awesome combination that will be accepted by all. Even our life, our mind and our soul needs a mix of everything because too much of only one thing is boring and unbearable from a point. All the aspects are present in all situations, either be in majority, minority or even negligibility. What we can be sure about is that Life is beautiful, simply because everything is a blend of everything.
